December 2018 FAQ

I wanted to update on a couple of issues that we've been getting a lot of questions about:

NG TUBE:
Job is now tube free! It perhaps got caught on something because on 12/8 Job came running to me, crying and holding the tube half in his nose. Ezra held him down while I tried to get it back in, but it's really a 2-3 adult job, so I just pulled it all the way out and called to get permission to try all his meds by mouth.

He's doing well still, though it takes us alllll day to get his meds in, because there are so many and so many that taste terrible, but he's doing a great job with them! And as long as that continues, he doesn't have to have the tube.

FEEDING:
Job can eat solid foods by mouth! We have to be careful about hidden liquids and we have to thicken all of his drinks (to about a milkshake consistency). He loves to eat but now that the novelty of being able to eat again has worn off, he's being a picky two year old. What he loves one day he suddenly doesn't love the next day, but he is gaining weight.

IJ INFILTRATION/NECK WOUND:
Perhaps a week after his transplant, so mid October, Job's right side IJ infiltrated (leaked meds) and had to be replaced with a left side IJ. Because these central lines are so very important to give ("life support") meds, our first concern was to get a new line in. But many of these meds are toxic to the skin cells and the concern was that his cells would die at the infiltrate site and calcify and eventually necessitate surgery. The team acted so quickly to inject other meds to counteract the infiltration and it worked! He hasn't had any issues so far, though they will continue to assess.

CLOTS:
Because they need multiple access points while patients are on life support, after they placed the IJ on the left side of his neck they also placed an additional central line in his left arm. And when they pulled it out right before discharge, they found 8-9 clots in his left arm. So we've been giving twice daily injections of an anticoagulation drug (lovenox) to treat these clots. Job really really hates these shots and it's hard for pin him down firmly enough to administer it without injecting myself or somewhere else on his body.

Because taking a blood pressure or drawing blood could dislodge one of these clots, we can't do either of those things in his left arm. Which means his poor right arm veins are scarring up and becoming more difficult to draw from. We've basically alternated arms his whole life because he's had so many clots or because of that fistula he used to have in his right arm, so this isn't a new frustration, but because he already has small and squiggly cardiac veins, it doesn't make for fun blood draws.

The weird clot they found in his left leg (that must have traveled down to his leg, since he didn't have any lines in his left leg this time) has resolved, but the clots in his left arm have not fully resolved. The ultrasound he had earlier this week found that they're smaller but still potentially dangerous. So we have to now do another 6 weeks of anticoagulation therapy.

DONOR FAMILY CONTACT:
We are working on a letter to the donor family and will send it to the organization that facilitates contact in the next month or two. But they won't give it to the donor family until a year after transplant.

If the family would like to make contact with us, they can then do so, and we can exchange a round of letters without specific information, and then eventually can share such information and even meet someday if we'd like. The donor family gets to direct our interactions, as of course they should.

THERAPY:
Job is receiving weekly PT and weekly SLP therapies and we're so grateful for both of them! He's still rather delayed but is making great progress, and we anticipate being in weekly therapy for most of this next year and then perhaps spacing out our visits to twice a month or monthly for the next year after that.

I love that people ask about these things because they have all been such areas of concern, so that people are asking means they have been praying for us specifically on these issues. I can't ever express how encouraging that is to us.

Here's a bit of video I took earlier this week of Job invading the children's choir at our church Christmas pageant. He loved being on stage so much, he took every opportunity to run up there even when the sheep weren't really supposed to be on stage. It was a really sweet visual, however, of how this new heart has given Job such energy and an enthusiasm for life.

https://youtu.be/hlZ2NNbx5Ik

December 2018 Update

Job is loving life. He has so much enthusiasm and energy and practically bounces off the walls - oh, and while talking constantly!

I'm absolutely exhausted keeping up with him but am so very very grateful to have the opportunity to be worn out from attending to his needs instead of, quite frankly, grieving his death.

Sometimes it's really hard to be content with all of the things we're being asked to do for him. I really want a break from all things medicine, to be quite honest. At the beginning of this week I was feeling myself slide into resentment because I had three days of appointments at SCH and therefore 9+ hours of driving Seattle traffic and childcare to figure out and I'm really annoyed at his tacro levels. I asked a few dear friends to pray for my attitude; for stamina and gratitude and patience, because I know quite well I can't spontaneously cultivate those things myself. I lose sight of the big picture - the big picure of Job's whole life, let alone the bigger picture of the whole of human life - and get bogged down in my daily troubles... Then I (sometimes) catch myself in my ingratitude and start preaching to myself... But sometimes I wallow for days first. At least right now it seems I ricochet from one extreme to the other, with little to no balance.

One particular daily trial is that his tacro level has been all over the place these last two weeks, from a low of 4 to a high of 26.4, instead of staying anywhere in the 10-12 range like it's supposed to. We're frustrated and concerned (and very sick of near daily blood draws), as are his doctors, though they are more confident we'll find the right dose than we are at present. This is his most important medication to manage his rejection and is essential to get in range asap. Too low and he's at risk of rejection (even with juat a few days of too low a dose!). Too high and the side effects start piling up.

His cardiology appointment a few days ago was fantastic though. The team is THRILLED at how well his new heart is doing! He looks and sounds great.

The doctor actually came into the exam room just as Job was racing across it, running away and squealing with joy as he played hide and seek with the big boys. She just started laughing and joked that was all she needed to see - he must be feeling better.

He has some mild tricuspid valve reguege still so we can't yet wean off his diuretics or the supps to replenish his electrolytes that the diuretics are stripping. So we're still on lots of meds, but as his heart grows to better match his body's needs then we should be able to wean down.

He really hates his sodium chloride though and I think it is becoming quite a problem as he tries so hard to refuse it and sometimes spits it up. It tastes horrid (can you imagine drinking an ounce of salt walter 3x a day?), so I don't blame him at all. Buuuttt he needs to take his meds no matter the taste. I don't want him to get used to gagging and refusing a med and then that turning into refusing all meds. We're going to try putting some of them in food this week but that gets tricky because then he has to eat all the food instead of just swallow a syringe full. Other meds make him queasy so now that he's taking everything orally we're essentially giving meds all day long, to space them out. It won't be sustainable long term but it's helping now while we have so many meds.

All in all, he's doing really well and we're so thankful.